

At their Best: self-accepting, authentic, everything they seem to be-role models who inspire others.īasic Desire: To feel valuable and worthwhileĮnneagram Three with a Two-Wing: "The Charmer"Įnneagram Three with a Four-Wing: "The Professional" They typically have problems with workaholism and competitiveness. They are diplomaticĪnd poised, but can also be overly concerned with their image and what others think They can also be status-conscious and highly driven for advancement. Threes are self-assured, attractive, and charming. Man,” “Melanie Hamilton Wilkes” (Gone with the Wind), “Eve Harrington” (All AboutĪdaptable, Excelling, Driven, and Image-Conscious Thomas “John Boy Walton,” Juliette Binoche, Arsenio Hall, Timothy Treadwell “Grizzly Josh Groban, Music of Journey, Bobby McFerrin, Kenny G, Paula Abdul, Priscilla Presley,Įlizabeth Taylor, Danny Thomas, Martin Sheen, Jennifer Tilly, Danny Glover, Richard Pavarotti, John Denver, Lionel Richie, Stevie Wonder, Barry Manilow, Dolly Parton, Landers, Mary Kay Ash (Mary Kay Cosmetics), Leo Buscaglia, Richard Simmons, Luciano Katie, Bishop Desmond Tutu, Eleanor Roosevelt, Nancy Reagan, Monica Lewinsky, Ann Learn more about the arrows.Įxamples: Paramahansa Yogananda, Pope John XXIII, Guru Ammaji (“The Hugging Saint”), Byron Twos become more self-nurturing and emotionally aware, like healthy Fours. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), prideful, self-deceptive When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), needy Twos suddenly becomeĪggressive and dominating at Eight. To get others to respond to them, to vindicate their claims about themselves. Key Motivations: Want to be loved, to express their feelings for others, to be needed and appreciated, Enneagram Two with a Three-Wing: "The Host/Hostess".Enneagram Two with a One-Wing: "Servant".Basic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being loved.At their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others.

They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging They are well-meaningĪnd driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing,īut can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing. Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted. Generous, Demonstrative, People-Pleasing, and Possessive Keith Olbermann, Jerry Seinfeld, Bill Maher, Tina Fey, Katherine Hepburn, Maggie Smith,Įmma Thompson, Julie Andrews, Vanessa Redgrave, Jane Fonda, Meryl Streep, Harrisonįord, Helen Hunt, Captain “Sully” Sullenberger, “Mary Poppins,” “Mr. Jack Kevorkian, Anita Roddick (The Body Shop), Martha Stewart,Ĭhef Thomas Keller, Michio Kushi (macrobiotics), George Harrison, Joan Baez, Celineĭion, Ralph Nader, Noam Chomsky, Bill Moyers, George F. Giuliani, Elliot Spitzer, Justice Sandra Day O’Connor, Osama bin Laden, George Bernard Pope John Paul II, Nelson Mandela, Margaret Thatcher, Prince Charles, Kate Middleton,ĭuchess of Cambridge, Jimmy Carter, Michelle Obama, Al Gore, Hillary Clinton, Rudy Learn more about the arrows.Įxamples: Confucius, Plato, Salahuddin Ayyubi, Joan of Arc, Sir Thomas More, Mahatma Gandhi, Ones become more spontaneous and joyful, like healthy Sevens. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), angry, critical When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), methodical Ones suddenlyīecome moody and irrational at Four. Their ideals, to justify themselves, to be beyond criticism so as not to be condemned Key Motivations: Want to be right, to strive higher and improve everything, to be consistent with Can be morally heroic.īasic Fear: Of being corrupt/evil, defectiveīasic Desire: To be good, to have integrity, to be balancedĮnneagram One with a Nine-Wing: "The Idealist"Įnneagram One with a Two-Wing: "The Advocate" At their Best: wise, discerning, realistic, and noble. They typically have problems with resentment and impatience. To maintain high standards, but can slip into being critical and perfectionistic.

Well-organized, orderly, and fastidious, they try Teachers, crusaders, and advocates for change: always striving to improve things,īut afraid of making a mistake. Ones are conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. Principled, Purposeful, Self-Controlled, and Perfectionistic
